Hello, everyone!
Today I want to talk about something very important to me.
I want to talk about a problem with which I have dealt literally my whole life and which has caused me a lot of problems over the course of my life.
Inconsistency.
I’m one of those people who like doing everything. I am curious, I love to learn, I always want to know more than I already know.
But, having so many interests has proven to be a burdain from time to time. Whenever I start doing something I like, I seem to subconsciously push it out of my interest after a very brief period of time. This has prevented me from actually devoting myself to anything I even remotely liked or was interested in.
For year have I skipped from one interest to another, one dream job to another, one hobby to another, one sport to another. I’m only 19 years old and so far I have trained these sports in this specific order:
- swimming
- basketball
- fencing
- handball
- baseball
- rowing
- judo
And what is even more insane, I was pretty good at all of these (ok, maybe not basketball), but even though I liked it, even though I was doing good, I always stopped doing it. Never have I successfully commited myself to a sport enough to say that I’m really really good at it.
But it goes a lot further than just sports. As to this day, I wanted to be a(n):
- lawyer
- translator
- programmer
- web developer
- photographer
- entrepreneur
- writer
Yup, I’m a total all-around kid of guy!
Now don’t get me wrong, I don’t feel bad about this a single bit. It is a problem I’m dealing with my whole life, but I have not regretted being me even for a second. I love myself just the way I am. I love that I’m curious, I love that I love to learn, I love that I want to do anyhing and everything. Kids these days seem to not have any interests – well I have plenty for them all! And guess what? I’m proud of that.
But still, in order to make a path of my own, I had to find a way to cope with this. The solution was so simple that I laughed when I tried it for the first time.
Planning. Planning Everything.
You wouldn’t believe how a single list can change the course of your day.
Before I started planning stuff, I used to spend a lot of time multitasking. And that led to nowhere. I would, say, stard multiple courses all at once, and I never finished any of them because I would constantly lose focus while thinking about some other course. Nowadays, I grab a pen and paper, and I carefully plan how will I complete the course.
Every evening before I go to bed, I write down what I want to accomplish the next day. And guess what? I accomplish it. This goes not only for days. I have a daily plan, a weekly plan, a monthly plan, an anual plan… Determining your goals and crushing them – this is the philosophy I go by.
Not to mention the improvement this has made on my studies! Instead of cramming in lesson by lesson as I did so far, now I make a study plan and I go by it, step by step. I even time my study periods in order to keep track of how much time I spend studying.
This blog is actually my way of battling with inconsistency. By devoting myself to writing each and every day, I challenge my inconsistent unconcious. And I don’t intend to quit! I have gone so far and I’m not turning back, I’m making my own path towards success and I do not intend to mess this up!
Thank you so much for supporting me, guys!
If you have similar stories, I would love to hear them. Please leave any interesting story in the comments below!
Untill tomorrow!
Love,
V